"Suffering Together"
There are different depths of love. I believe one of the deepest levels is experienced through "suffering together". This is when we share a pain or hurt, hardship or loss, together. We are there for each other. If we can do something, we do it. We help. If we can't, we're just there, there letting the other person know we care and we are for them. We want them to know they are not alone in whatever they're facing or going through. We want them to know that we love them and are not abandoning them when they need us the most.
In Acts 9:16, Jesus shares that Paul will have to "suffer" a great deal for Him and His cause. Thats not an invitation I really want to hear. Imagine that...Jesus comes to you and says, "Hey, I'm so glad you've decided to follow me. Now, I have some great things to show you." What are they? "I want to show you the great things you must suffer for my sake." Ouch! Not what I would be expecting. But, you know what, years later this is what Paul says to a church. "I want to know Him, in the power of His resurrection, and the "fellowship of His sufferings"(Philippians 3:10). Did you catch that last part? Paul said He wanted to know Christ in the "fellowship of His sufferings". Wow!!! Paul had learned that there is another level of love, a depth of fellowship, this powerful closeness that comes through sharing pain and difficulty together with someone.
I CONCLUDE WITH TWO BIG QUESTIONS:
1) Are You Willing To Share In Suffering With Christ?
Here's the deal - it's not really a question of are we gonna experience difficulty or test or pain, the question is - when it comes, how are we gonna handle it? Are you willing to suffer together with Christ, if that is what's required? "If God wants you to suffer, it is better to suffer for doing what is right than for doing what is wrong." (1 Peter 3:17 NLV)
2) Are You Willing To Share In Suffering With Others?
Now, here's the other question. Are you willing to share the hurts and pains of those in the family of God? “Share each other's troubles and problems. In this way you obey the law of Christ.” (Gal. 6:2 NLT) Let's do it. Let's continue growing in our love for others and experience a new level of love like never before through the "fellowship of suffering" together.
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